About me
Hi, I'm Vanessa
I see you, because I've been there too:
● I see you feeling lost and overwhelmed after your divorce, unsure of who you are..
● I see you struggling to rebuild your confidence and identity after years of putting yourself last.
● I see you worried about your financial future and how you'll create stability on your own.
● I see you hesitant to trust again, fearful of making the same relationship mistakes.
● I see you trying to navigate co-parenting challenges while healing your own wounds.
● I see you wondering if you'll ever feel whole and happy again.
This Does Not Have to Be Your Path
You don't have to face this journey alone. I completely understand because I've walked this path myself.
You want to transform your divorce from a devastating end into a powerful new beginning. You're ready to rediscover your worth, rebuild your life, and create a future filled with purpose, joy and financial abundance – you just need guidance on how to make this happen.
Hey there, I'm Vanessa.
I help women transform their divorce experience from trauma to triumph by guiding them to rediscover their identity, rebuild their confidence, and create a life of purpose and joy beyond marriage.
My purpose here on earth is to help you transform your divorce into the catalyst for your greatest life chapter - and show you how to thrive, not just survive.
I'm a divorce coach for women who are ready to move beyond pain and uncertainty to create fulfilling lives after divorce. I specialize in helping women navigate the emotional, practical, financial and spiritual aspects of divorce recovery.
It's my mission to help women transition from feeling broken by divorce to building extraordinary new lives. I guide my clients to heal their hearts, rediscover their authentic selves, and create beautiful new beginnings so they can finally experience the freedom, confidence and joy they deserve...
EXACTLY WHAT THEY WERE MEANT FOR ALL ALONG.
HERE IS MY STORY
Look, I’m going to be honest with you, when my ex-husband told me he wanted a divorce, I lost ALL my self-confidence and all my direction in life.
“What sort of woman can’t keep her husband?”
I kept thinking to myself.
I kept looking at the women around me who were (still!) married and wondering what the hell they had that I didn’t. I must be unattractive. Maybe I’m not a very nice person. Maybe I wasn’t fun enough or sexy enough or a very good house wife or worth trying for…. but the basic message was clearly I wasn’t enough
The separation was HARD, I’m not going to lie, but I soldiered through. Fast forward six months and I found myself drifting around with a nagging feeling that I wasn’t heading where I wanted to go. I knew I had stories about myself that were not true (stories I had picked up about myself as a child) and past stressful events that kept coming back to trigger me at the worst possible moments. They were running the show and I couldn’t figure out how to shift them. I was totally lost.
I was lamenting my plight to a close friend and she told me about TRTP, having just been through the process herself and it sounded like just what I needed. So on her recommendation, I contacted the fabulous Sally Wilson and experienced TRTP for myself.
That was nearly two years ago now and the results have been nothing short of life-changing.
In the first weeks after I had done TRTP, I was more confident and way more comfortable with who I was right then and there. I felt relaxed and worthy and loveable for the first time in a loooong time. And things just got better and better. I hired a coach to help me find a new direction in life and got on with it. I quit a very stressful job as the business manager of an independent school, trained in TRTP and now live my life according to my core values; freedom, adventure, creativity and connection.
I make decisions differently - based on what I actually want, not what I think will please someone else. I am achieving goals and dreams I never thought possible for myself. I show up for my children the way they need me to, not based on some external ideal. I have a fabulous circle of friends for the first time in my life. I totally accept and embrace that I am a shit housekeeper (and create the space for others to accept that in themselves too). I am pursuing a passion not just working in a job. I know who I am. I know that I AM ENOUGH. I have finally found my light and I am living the life of my dreams.
And I want that for YOU.
The beauty of the process is that it works on the unconscious, changing your core beliefs about who you are and what you deserve in life, and dissolving past trauma, in just three sessions. You don’t have to try and create change; amazing, glorious things just start to happen by themselves… unconsciously, effortlessly.
If some of the above resonated with you, you feel stuck, or like stressful or traumatic events from your past or old stories about who you are and what you are allowed to achieve are holding you back, I would love to help you find your light!
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● I understand firsthand the challenges and opportunities that come with divorce.
● I am fully committed to my journey of continued growth and healing, and I am fully committed to helping you do the same.
PROFESSIONAL BIO
[Your Name] is a Certified Divorce Recovery Coach who specializes in helping women transform their lives after divorce. Through one-on-one coaching, group programs, and workshops, [Your Name] guides women to heal from divorce trauma, rediscover their authentic selves, and build fulfilling new lives.
Through her signature Divorce to Destiny coaching program, [Your Name] helps women navigate the emotional challenges of divorce, rebuild their confidence, establish financial independence, and create new visions for their futures so they can transform their divorce from an ending into the beginning of their best life chapter.
[Your Name] holds certifications in Divorce Recovery Coaching and [any other relevant certifications]. After experiencing her own divorce journey, she developed a passion for helping other women not just survive but truly thrive after divorce. Her approach combines practical strategies with emotional healing techniques to address the whole person.
*[Your Name] is based in [Your Location] and works with clients virtually around the world.